What are Family Values?
Family values are the set of beliefs, principles, customs, respectful relationships and displays of affection that are transmitted through generations.
The family is the foundation of every society. The first moral, personal and social values are learned at home through the teachings that parents transmit to their children and which in turn were taught by their grandparents, siblings, uncles and other relatives or loved ones.
Taking care of each other, respecting the elderly, collaborating with housework, being kind and honest, makes people act as good citizens in each of the social groups of which they are part.
For example, at school during sports and cultural activities, or in the community where they live, these are spaces where family values are reflected and put into practice.
In general terms, it is understood that family values are all those that are considered acceptable to society.
However, in some cases and for various reasons, there are families whose values are negative or bad examples.
For example, in families where banality, self-centeredness or a sense of superiority reign, they are teaching and transmitting values that invite people to act incorrectly in society.
It is important that families have well defined values on which they are based, since, in turn, these will be transmitted to their descendants.
Having consistent values is part of the construction of the family, its unity and the trust among all its members.
The most important family values
There is a long list of values that are put into practice and transmitted from generation to generation in each family. However, there are some that stand out for their importance and need in society.
Respect
Respect is a value that is found in all spaces in which the individual operates. It is important to respect yourself as a person so that others will respect us.
Likewise, the opinions and feelings of family members must be respected and valued.
Belonging
It refers to the sense of belonging, all members of a family should feel and recognize as an important part of it. Belonging also indicates unity and respect.
Sorry
Forgiveness is a very important value. People are individual beings who handle our feelings in different ways. Some forgive faster than others.
It is a value that must be put into practice no matter how difficult it may be. For example, forgiving a brother for having accidentally damaged a personal object.
Commitment
It is a value that must be taught from an early age. Commitment means responsibility. People who make commitments give their word that they will fulfill their promises and their duties. For example, the commitment to educate children at home, give them love and good examples.
Gratitude
It refers to the recognition of how important a person, feeling or effort is. It is a way of being grateful for what another can do for us. Giving a hug as a gesture of gratitude to a brother, father or mother when they help us to do something is an example of gratitude.
Patience
Patience is the will to channel the impulsiveness of response in those moments that are less pleasant and of great annoyance or nervousness. Calmness and patience help focus your thoughts before acting or speaking.
For example, in the middle of a situation of annoyance, before responding impulsively, it is advisable to analyze what is happening and find the best solution.
Traditions
Family traditions are what differentiate them from each other. Each family is particular and has its own codes. Traditions are part of that sharing and allow us to save the best family memories by sharing unique moments such as a birthday, a Christmas, among others.
Communication
Communication is part of respecting and saying things on time and in a polite way. Avoid misunderstandings and seek the best solutions to problems. Communication must be constant, clear and respectful.
Self esteem
Self-esteem is the vision that each person has of himself. It is important that people accept themselves as they are and value themselves for who they are.
This is part of the construction of a strong personality and of the capacities to recognize which are the strengths and weaknesses that each individual has.
It is in family nuclei where self-esteem is developed and fostered from an early age.
Humility
It is important that in homes it is emphasized that all people are equal, that is, no one is worth more or less than another.
A humble life attitude will allow people to value themselves and others more recognizing the strengths and weaknesses of each one.
See also:
. Values.
. Social values.
. Types of securities.
. Types of standards
